That's what we are doing.
Almost 6 months ago hubby walked in the door from his doctors appointment , his mistake was to keep a secret. He had gone in before for cancer tests, and now they came back. Positive.
So we went through the tears fears anger the omg . And once through those stages. With out talking it over we moved as one unit. And set out to smile, keep moving, do everything we could think of project wise. And not sit around and wait for the next shoe to fall.
Meanwhile after telling the family what was going on. I dove into using face book to keep everyone posted.
We went through the treatment.
And then got back to life.
And we have had a blast. Yard work , finishing the house purging. Redoing furniture . Painting areas in the house and we are still not done.
We have laughed our way through days. Over done ourselves smiled and walked slowly through the next day.
We have gotten tons closer then we ever were. And packed so much into so few months.
Well he survive this? Dam straight! Never a question there cause they caught it in time.
We start every morning with a walk. End every day with a hug kiss I love you, and go to our separate bed rooms. Nether of us mind this though I dream someday we can share again. But if it never happens that's ok.
We find the humor everyday in life. Smiles.. You name it.
We did the ok if I die thing early on. Got the plans in place etc. then laughed. Walked away and been working on the rest of our life plans ever since then
He's gained weight. Color is returning.
And he can run circles around me left and right. There seems at 65 yrs young this man is an energizer bunny on steroids . Lol even I have a tough time keeping up with him lol.
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